Wednesday, April 10, 2013

saga continues



SAGA CONTINUES
After the third month antenatal check up for my daughter  S we returned to my parental home with a sigh of relief.While I was talking to my parents I heard S calling out for me.I could recognize the panic in her voice. That was the first of the many bleeding episodes to follow.But her doctor assured that there is nothing to worry.She continued with her studies.
After the 4th month check up at Coimbatore she was referred to her doctor in Kerala for a surgical procedure to avoid premature delivery.But that was not done because her cervical length was normal.She was advised to take  long leave and not to return to Coimbatore to resume her postgraduate studies.I was happy  to be at our home at Ernakulam because by then I was exhausted and fed up with the heat and 10 hour power cut at Coimbatore.
Our home was getting ready to receive the newcomers.My veranda overlooking the backyard garden was redone with anti slippery tiles because it was there I was planning to give oil bath for the babies.S too loved to sit there while I oil massaged her hair.My garden was replenished and it started blooming.The lawn became  greener than before.Freezer was stored with delicacies for everyday guests.My days become more hectic with cooking,cleaning,gardening,entertaining guests,multiple hospital visits for checkups,scans, foetal echo etc etc.Friends and relatives visiting us enlightened our lives otherwise confined to the home.
Ramadan started.We spent more hours in prayers than usual.My niece’s engagement was coming up soon after the Eid and we were eagerly waiting for that too.But there was a gnawing anxiety behind all those happy moments.We celebrated Eid with our parents and relatives.Sonu’s engagement was clubbed with the 7th month check up so as to limit the travel time.Every thing went up fine.Doctor said no more outings,S  should take complete rest to avoid preterm delivery.
I was planning to do the preparations for the hospital stay and upcoming delivery soon after Ramadan.I never had time before and could not leave S alone at home while I go out.But God had other plans.I did not get time for shopping.S started getting frequent painless contractions.She was admitted in the hospital as an emergency case at 31 weeks.And on the 3rd day of hospitalization her water broke.She had to undergo an emergency caesarean section to deliver the low birth
weight preterm babies at 31 weeks .
You want to hear how we coped with the tiny babies ?Wait for my next blog.